UPDATE!
Well we are 11 days out from the wedding, things have fallen into place nicely! the hens and bucks parties are done and the 3 day hangovers have been conquered (with several promises of no more than 6 drinks at anyone time have been made)
we are going to have about 75 Guests all up, and in a nice touch we are having our bikes in the wedding photos (i actually get to ride the ST to our wedding, very stoked about that one).
we have run aground with funds and ideas for our honeymoon, so we are having the wedding, the Monday off then back to work with the rest of the humans!