Those arguments are all well and good, but largely irrelevant.
Many older appartment buildings were never designed for residential parking and almost no new ones allocate room for more than 1 vehicle per flat. So how do residents with multiple vehicle needs get on?. City centers have few (if any) petrol stations yet people can drive out of the centre to charge their cars.
It's all very easy to say that in the past we were ignorant therefore the future is impossible. I'm currently travelling in the UK and Europe and guess what, those 12th/13th etc century buildings all have electric power now, also air conditioning, sewerage, running water etc etc.
eg Local Solar installations may offset a considerable amount of the power requirement, as would Smart/(off peak) EV chargers. Maybe residents from those blocks will have to charge their car elsewhere, after all they most likely walk or bus to work anyway, so only need the vehicle+charging when leaving the city centre and can use public fast chargers.
As far as the tired old argument of 'The Grid' not ready for it. If there was a step change of ALL cars must be EV now or next year, we wouldn't be ready. But its a gradual, though hastening change, and 'readiness' is being worked on by the energy industry. We easily have enough 'Power', just not always in the right places.