Glen,
If I was to delete a post of your, or any one for that matter (even Peters posts) then I send an email to the poster. The only time I dont is when I do a thread cleanup to remove a number of off topic/ or getting nasty posts, thyen I will place a post saying "Off topic posts removed" or the like.
As you are one of the better posters, I cant think of any reason a Mod would have deleted a post. I havent deleted any posts for a while, better start exercising my delete finger maybe..