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Kev Murphy · « **on:** February 03, 2017, 05:15:18 AM »

Just found out a few minutes ago that a close friend has just been diagnosed in late stages of cancer.
Family has been called in, as he only has a few days left. Organs have started shutting down.
He came home from work last Friday and said he felt a bit 'off'
Only had a coffee with him at his home last Sunday. I am totally devastated.

Gadget · « **Reply #1 on:** February 03, 2017, 06:50:20 AM »

Kev,

Sorry to hear it. It's never good news. I hope he doesn't suffer.

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hobs · « **Reply #2 on:** February 03, 2017, 06:52:55 AM »

That is really sad news Kev. I feel for you, hope you are able to have some quality time with your friend and get to share the things we always think but never say.

Sicman · « **Reply #3 on:** February 03, 2017, 08:37:01 AM »

Thats no good Kev - Remember though your friend hasn't spent years suffering from this disease so in a way it will be quick and I am sure he will be well cared for. His family & friends have the chance to say goodbye,which is something I see a lot of people never getting that chance. Condolences to you and his family

Wild Rose · « **Reply #4 on:** February 03, 2017, 08:48:19 AM »

Bad news Kev but as said he hasn't suffered much and is with loved ones

spanner · « **Reply #5 on:** February 03, 2017, 10:38:07 AM »

bugger.

Kev Murphy · « **Reply #6 on:** February 03, 2017, 11:01:58 AM »

Just returned from the hospital. Good turn up of friends, about 15 of us.
We left when his family arrived.
He is still lucid and in good spirits.... even had a joke... mentioned that the boss still owes him 4 weeks annual leave, which he had intended to take at the end of this month.

Biggles · « **Reply #7 on:** February 03, 2017, 11:19:07 AM »

Quote from: Kev Murphy on February 03, 2017, 11:01:58 AM

He is still lucid and in good spirits.... even had a joke... mentioned that the boss still owes him 4 weeks annual leave, which he had intended to take at the end of this month.

Sounds like he's got the best possible attitude in the circumstances- helpful to everyone.
All the best as you spend some time with him. Sometimes days can go on for a while.

Kev Murphy · « **Reply #8 on:** February 03, 2017, 12:06:06 PM »

Been talking to some of his workmates, they are all going to see him after work this afternoon.

Wombat · « **Reply #9 on:** February 03, 2017, 12:23:52 PM »

Sorry to hear the news. All the best from over here

Nigel · « **Reply #10 on:** February 03, 2017, 01:10:23 PM »

Sorry Kev hope its quick and no pain........

Brock · « **Reply #11 on:** February 03, 2017, 03:03:24 PM »

Kev,

I know what you are going through, I went through the same thing in Thailand 2 years ago. The Wifes Uncle (and my friend) died of lung cancer while we were there on holiday. At least your friend isnt suffering, as that puts a massive strain on every one.

Just remember, that we will be here for you should you need it.

Kev Murphy · « **Reply #12 on:** February 03, 2017, 03:22:43 PM »

Am heading back to visit again now.

Kev Murphy · « **Reply #13 on:** February 03, 2017, 05:15:58 PM »

Jamie is still chipper, but looks a lot greyer than this afternoon. He is a little doped out with pain killers, but still managed big smiles for us visitors, and was fairly chatty. It's his 50th birthday on Monday, and he is determined to celebrate it the best that he can.
It's very hard on his two grandies, aged 4 and 6, they do not fully understand why Grandad is in hospital.

Jdbiker · « **Reply #14 on:** February 03, 2017, 06:25:21 PM »

Sorry to hear the sad news Kev.

royst1100 · « **Reply #15 on:** February 04, 2017, 07:53:07 AM »

Sorry to hear. Hope he doesn't suffer at all

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Kev Murphy · « **Reply #16 on:** February 04, 2017, 01:03:33 PM »

Not long home after visiting Jamie today. He is a little subdued, but not as doped out from the meds as he was yesterday. Is still very positive. Always the jester, he said not to bring any birthday booze in for him on Monday.
His missus, Angie, is staying with him today and this evening, and as a token of respect we will not be visiting this afternoon/evening so they can have some quality time together.

Kev Murphy · « **Reply #17 on:** February 05, 2017, 11:44:49 AM »

Jamie is going downhill rapidly. The light is on, but no one home. He failed to recognise family and friends today. Absolutely gut wrenching.
We only had a short visit as he is absolutely exhausted. Very hard to understand how someone we all love could fade so fast. Yesterday he took a sip of water and put it down "Too hot to drink!" was his comment.
There was ice floating in the glass.

Gadget · « **Reply #18 on:** February 05, 2017, 11:50:50 AM »

The pain relief meds can make the brain very fuzzy.

It is ver hard for the family and friends, but it does relieve the pain.

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STroppy · « **Reply #19 on:** February 05, 2017, 11:57:16 AM »

So young, so sad . . .

Kev Murphy · « **Reply #20 on:** February 05, 2017, 03:25:56 PM »

a text received from Angie.. Jamie lapsed into a coma just after 3pm.
tears streaming down as I type this.

Sicman · « **Reply #21 on:** February 05, 2017, 04:30:51 PM »

Thoughts are with you Kev. Its hard to standby and watch it all happen. I hope you have good people around you so you can talk things out

tj189 · « **Reply #22 on:** February 05, 2017, 04:46:41 PM »

Thoughts are with you and the family

Jdbiker · « **Reply #23 on:** February 05, 2017, 05:58:21 PM »

Very sad, our thoughts and prayers are with you Kev.

royst1100 · « **Reply #24 on:** February 05, 2017, 06:51:42 PM »

Will be thinking of you and your friends tonight.

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